The secret is how to {Die} - How to Adjust.

we spead 80 percent of our lives adjusting, learning, complaining about and falling into other peoples behaviors. and 15 percent making improvments or bad habits with our own. And 1 -5% learning about ourselves, learning who we are. its funny that the person we spend 100 percent of our time with, is the person we knw the least. maybe the secret is not how to live but how to die? wee spend so much time in our social lives adjusting to everyone else personalities that we dont have time to stop and look @ whats inside us. learning about ourselves from birth is almost demonized (maybe not that extreme). but its not something of the norm. As we grow up people all around us enstill who we are who we are gonna be and if not what other options we have. the world is such a diverse place with billions of people but unfortuantly few personalities. Of course we are all different but i was once apart of a college study that took a group of 200 and reduce to 6 personality types. And we were the same but we are all so much More the samme then we would like to think. Life is like a box of chocolates, with a few guesses you always knw what you are gonna get. the secret is how to die, when we die metaphysically we grow. the moments we try to escape ... to get some space. allthese moments are important, because the moment all we have is the sound of our own voice we have no choice but to listen. there is a saying "The Kingdom of God is within you" ... that being said when are alone and only have whats inside to listen to we become inspired, and find out things, some we never realized but were always there. think about the great thinkers of our time. their great ideas and philosopies doctrines came to them where and when? Alone ... Newton under a tree, Jesus in cave, moses on a mountain the buddha in the wild. the list goes on. and anyone who knew these men would tell you they were like no one else. maybe they were so unique becuase they took the time to study themselves and in the process of listening to their own voices they heard God, discovered gravity and explained Realitivity. Searching for our Unique selves we may find God. or in searching for God we find ouraelves.

The secret is How to {Live} - Random Flow {Poem} ---

The greatest thing about life is,

That there are constant changes ...

Up and downs wrapped in

confusing words and horrible sounds ...

I wonder was i wrong,

should i keep my mouth shut?

lifes to dam short to be considering lust.

she did this to me before picked fights out of the air,

and the result wasn't as complex as i thought.

thought it was something my heart could not bare

it was simple ...

the easier the thought

the easier the action ...

so from this moment on im telling you we are

through lets stop making distractions

even if she didn't mean it,

complaining about how arguments go in circles...

I dont really need it

im trying to grow here trying to connect

and who the hell ever said lifes to short for stress

the scars are what make us who we really are

and sometimes connecting means you gotta raise the bar...

Some people have connections and others fear that love may grow

others dont have connections and complain that the love doesn't show.

maybe this fight is not going in circles as much as you thought it was

maybe all thats happened is you stopped listening

and you tell me its because ...

all i do is make you feel guilty when i speak my mind

when the truth is im to honest

to even try and pretend im blind

Your tired of fighting and running into that brick wall

Well the fight in me is just starting and ill never be tired

not at all.

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Maybe these words might fall on deaf ears ...

maybe someone will read it ...

maybe its my fate to be alone in my thoughts

i preasent my heart my love and fears ...

and i hope for the world to receive it ...

Dasean Barnes.