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Quarter Life Crisis

have i reach a quarter life crisis or just a new stage. my first 25% of my life is done and its time to start the next. they should be different like our lives year to year. my next life phase resolution ... to LIVE NOW. ...

The secret is how to {Die} - How to Adjust.

we spead 80 percent of our lives adjusting, learning, complaining about and falling into other peoples behaviors. and 15 percent making improvments or bad habits with our own. And 1 -5% learning about ourselves, learning who we are. its funny that the person we spend 100 percent of our time with, is the person we knw the least. maybe the secret is not how to live but how to die? wee spend so much time in our social lives adjusting to everyone else personalities that we dont have time to stop and look @ whats inside us. learning about ourselves from birth is almost demonized (maybe not that extreme). but its not something of the norm. As we grow up people all around us enstill who we are who we are gonna be and if not what other options we have. the world is such a diverse place with billions of people but unfortuantly few personalities. Of course we are all different but i was once apart of a college study that took a group of 200 and reduce to 6 personality types. And we were the same but we are all so much More the samme then we would like to think. Life is like a box of chocolates, with a few guesses you always knw what you are gonna get. the secret is how to die, when we die metaphysically we grow. the moments we try to escape ... to get some space. allthese moments are important, because the moment all we have is the sound of our own voice we have no choice but to listen. there is a saying "The Kingdom of God is within you" ... that being said when are alone and only have whats inside to listen to we become inspired, and find out things, some we never realized but were always there. think about the great thinkers of our time. their great ideas and philosopies doctrines came to them where and when? Alone ... Newton under a tree, Jesus in cave, moses on a mountain the buddha in the wild. the list goes on. and anyone who knew these men would tell you they were like no one else. maybe they were so unique becuase they took the time to study themselves and in the process of listening to their own voices they heard God, discovered gravity and explained Realitivity. Searching for our Unique selves we may find God. or in searching for God we find ouraelves.

The secret is How to {Live} - Random Flow {Poem} ---

The greatest thing about life is,

That there are constant changes ...

Up and downs wrapped in

confusing words and horrible sounds ...

I wonder was i wrong,

should i keep my mouth shut?

lifes to dam short to be considering lust.

she did this to me before picked fights out of the air,

and the result wasn't as complex as i thought.

thought it was something my heart could not bare

it was simple ...

the easier the thought

the easier the action ...

so from this moment on im telling you we are

through lets stop making distractions

even if she didn't mean it,

complaining about how arguments go in circles...

I dont really need it

im trying to grow here trying to connect

and who the hell ever said lifes to short for stress

the scars are what make us who we really are

and sometimes connecting means you gotta raise the bar...

Some people have connections and others fear that love may grow

others dont have connections and complain that the love doesn't show.

maybe this fight is not going in circles as much as you thought it was

maybe all thats happened is you stopped listening

and you tell me its because ...

all i do is make you feel guilty when i speak my mind

when the truth is im to honest

to even try and pretend im blind

Your tired of fighting and running into that brick wall

Well the fight in me is just starting and ill never be tired

not at all.

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Maybe these words might fall on deaf ears ...

maybe someone will read it ...

maybe its my fate to be alone in my thoughts

i preasent my heart my love and fears ...

and i hope for the world to receive it ...

Dasean Barnes.

|| Politics ||

The Problem With being involved in politics in anyway is that even people on the same side Play politics within the same team. So in the End, Politics is all the same its about Self Interest. People only vote because of what they can get out of it. THEIR own tax Breaks THEIR reduced Health Care THEIR own school grants ... How many people Actually Vote for the better world and taxes for our Great Grandchildren? Not many. so are we really voting for something better for the future or voting for what WE want right now? just a thought

The Secret is how to { Live} Hope ... The blue lanterns

This blog is a source of me Gaining my Definition and now i have and i see in the future i will find things that help define me in the most unusual places. Today its a comic ...Green lantern but its not what you may think. ( not the Hal Jordan who is the main green lantern). but a new chracter in the story ... one named Bro'dee Walker who is the first Blue lantern. unlike the Green lanterns the blue lanterns power rings are not powered by will and the absence of fear. but rather hope and faith in the well being and safty of others and love. I have identified with this on sooo many levels because of one reason. it falls right into line with my soul and everything i feel about my life and the lives of thoses around me. so in closing i identify closey with the blue lanterns and their message and i cannot wait to learn more and make it apart of myself. so until next time im off to Gain My Definition.

The secret is How to {Live} - Life worth living (25 percent)

Listening to Ben Harper - Pleasure and pain.

i have been recently thinking about my life and as far as living it, and how much i lve based on a certain experience. Every since i was young i can say one thing and that is that i have always had a concern and wonder with the stories of Love. In my life and the lives of others. But the question i presented with today in my life is how much of my life, how much of All of our lives do we spend it looking for and thinking about Love?

When we are in relationships we are thinking about the fact is this the right love for us and is this what we want. and while we are lonely we are seeking and wondering when True love will come our way. I have always thought of my life and expressed it in this way (Insert Graphic). I am 25 years old and taking into account lets say i live to a rip old age 100 that means that i have lived only 25 percent of my life.

But now i have a different look @ it because i think about it from a love point of view. i have thought about how much of my 25 years on this planet i have been thinking and in the Room of love. ( insert Graphic).

i remember once having a detail log of all my crushes and situations of love. i remembered each and every crush heartbreak and rebound. and i started to call this process the flavor of the week and i started to view my heart as one Made of glass. " A glass heart is easily broken, but is built to not hold the light. Light shines into the glass heart making it change but once the light stopsthe heart reverts back to its natural color. - Dasean Barnes"

Now listening : Ben harper - Faithfully Remain

Now i find myself in a Peak point in my life. No longer can i look @ my life as being lived and i have only done 25 percent of it. Because i do not know what tomorrow Brings, now i think my life will be represented more in a rapid decaying style. Meaning, Everyday increases the risk that tomorrow may not come. SO is it wise to not live life as if i am promise the next 75 years?

Im starting to realize life is short...

Presistance of Memory: Future' by ~DAnemisis2002 on deviantART

So now i faced with the question ... How much of Life is worth living ? Is our life a search of Love? how much of our lives do we spend just looking for love and is there more to life then romantic love?

I ask myself these questions and i realize and start to think about people who have found life long love . How do they live life what else is there in life for them once they have found the romantic love that they have been looking for? And is love blinding me? is it making me into this robot to Search for it and until i do i cannot live life otherwise?

what if my biological Cravings for children and sex and romance were Cut off? how would i function? would i still have a drive for my career success ? anything? it makes me think. maybe life is not about finding love but rather finding what we want to gain out of life and our journey. and should me journey like most people remain on the subject of Love?

SO now the question is how do i go about living without the craving and search for Love. ( Not to give up on it) but to rather not make it the main Road in my life. But making it a "+". and not the driving force behind all of my actions.

Umm alot to think about ... time for sleep now lol.